amanda's journey

My Girls

2008-10-27T12:46:00.000-07:00

How can something that is so simple (to me) be such a big deal to others…in a good way? That’s what I was thinking today as I went to the Lerato House for one of my last times. Today we had a goodbye party for the girls. Well, I guess you could say we just hung out. We brought dinner, cookies, and a movie (Hairspray…which they loved!!!). But, we also brought them gifts. This is where the simple part comes in.

I was actually really excited about our gifts but wasn’t sure what the girls would think. Laura and I took pictures with each girl and framed them. We had many other pictures from the year as well that we gave to each one. We also made cards and wrote nice notes to all the girls. When we gave them these gifts they were so excited! Their faces lit up! As they began opening them the screams started coming…more and more as each one opened their own. They were ecstatic! I couldn’t believe that something as simple as a picture could make someone that excited. But it did! I couldn’t stop smiling as I watched them run around the room showing each other the pictures they had gotten. I got some of the most genuine thank yous as well…accompanied by big hugs! It was a priceless moment!

We tried to take them outside to take one final group shot, and it took forever to organize them as they were still showing each other their “gifts”. But, we finally got them together and got one last amazing shot with “our girls”. So, here they are…our amazing, wonderful, unforgettable Lerato House girls…

(FRONT L-R: Thando, Maria, Nthabiseng BACK L-R: Me, Masika, Sibongile, Tebogo, Mmathapelo, Nonjabulo, Laura, Portia, House Mom Lizzie, Thabang, Dimakatso, Natalie, Bontle)

These girls have a huge part of my heart! I will forever remember this time in South Africa when I got to meet and spend time with 14 young girls and when these 14 young girls got to hang out with 2 random, crazy (white!) Americans.  This Thursday will probably be very tough as we say our very final goodbyes to them. Please pray for these girls. At times they ask, “Why are you leaving us?” It breaks my heart! I pray they know and remember the LOVE we have for them…and not that we “left” them. I pray they cherish these moments we had…as I will be doing! These girls all come from very tough backgrounds and have a long way to go. Although I won’t be with them in person any longer, they will always be remembered in my thoughts and prayers. They definitely showed me how to LOVE in a new way, and I am the better for it.

Thank you again for all your support and prayers throughout my time here! Because of you I was able to meet “my girls” and have an amazing time learning from them and knowing what it means to serve in love.

In Christ’s amazing Love,
manda

Visions

2008-10-15T10:03:00.000-07:00

Hello all!

Last time I wrote, I told you that I would be sharing my vision statement with you. I am excited to be able to do that this week! Last Friday we had the chance to share our final drafts with our entire community and be prayed for. It was really great and very encouraging. Earlier that day, I had a great conversation with my roommate (brought on from book discussion and our Friday conversation) about following God and what it looks like. One of the main things we talked about was communion with God (one of the three “beats” of NieuCommunities…communion, community, and mission) and how that's where it all starts! How do we know we are going in the right direction? Are we trying to live out a vision that is only of us or one that has been given to us by God? Are we in touch with Him enough to even hear the vision He’s giving us? This year has taught me so much about communing with God. I have realized how important and crucial it is to me. I know that I don’t want to move in any direction if it’s not of Him. That’s not to say that I will have all the answers all the time. I know that there will be times when God is leading me, and I will only know enough to take the first step. But, I know it’s a good first step to take. I have also learned that it’s important to let yourself dream with God…to allow yourself to listen to what He may be saying. How often to we let ourselves dream or envision the future? I can say that I never used to dream. I never used to explore. I have never even been able to say where I see myself in the coming years. That has changed this year. I’m not saying that I know exactly what the rest of my life will look like, but I know who I am at the core and who God has made me to be…I know what drives me now…what gives me joy. Communing with God more and more got me there…that I know for sure! That said, I do know that I will be back in Atlanta missioning to the women and children that have been hurt by human trafficking and child prostitution. The specifics are still in the works but I am excited. I know that I am taking the right first steps and I am trusting God to show me the next ones. Following is my completed Vision Statement. I hope you enjoy it!

SELF. I desire to live a life fully devoted to God. I want to walk hand and hand with my Father and bring Him glory in all that I do. I want to dance with the Triune God. I want my fellowship with them to be so apparent that it is no longer me that people see but Christ. I hope to be the selfless, humble servant God has called me to be to all. I want to be a person of great love.

JUSTICE. I want to fight for justice, so that I no longer see hurt in the eyes of God’s children. I want to be an agent of change amongst a world that is seeking its own desires. I want to pour compassion, love, and kindness upon women and children that have been shut-out, stolen, broken, hurt, and emotionally destroyed. I want to show those that feel they have no worth that they are precious in their Father’s eyes. In doing all this I want to create a home where these women and children can come when they are in need…a place of rescue…a place of love.

COMMUNITY. I desire to live in intentional community and continue to learn what it means to be a Christian every day of the week. I want to live a life of simplicity with those around me so that our extra may be another’s gain. I want to live in such a way where it’s apparent that I don’t value the things of this world but the people. Because of this, I want my community to live among those in need so we can see clearly where God would use us. I desire a community of diversity—a life filled with all of those that will be sitting around God’s table one day.

LEAD. I want to teach, instruct, and lead in the way God has designed me. I desire others to learn about the injustices of this world and help them to fight it in their unique way. I want to journey with others as they learn what it means to be followers of Christ, and motivate them to use the gifts that God has given them.

Last week I also had the rare opportunity to visit my World Vision sponsor child, Maka. She lives in Lesotho (click for map) which is a country that is located within South Africa. It is actually pronounced “lesutu”…the h in African languages is silent. It worked out perfectly because the girls here went on trip to the Drakensberg mountains, which are on the border of Lesotho and South Africa. I had been trying to make this visit happen all year and the timing ending up being perfect. My friends (Kellie, Laura, Barbara) and I all made the trek in and were greeted warmly at the border by our World Vision host, Thuso. From there we drove to the World Vision office that is in charge of the area where my sponsor child lives. We were greeted warmly by all the staff and given the rundown of the recent projects, etc. After this, we got in the trucks and made our way up into the mountains where my child’s family lives. It was quite the bumpy ride but beautiful as well! Lesotho is quite picturesque, partly to do with the fact that it isn’t developed nearly as much as most countries. It has been an independent nation since 1964, but I don’t think there were many people other than natives living there in the first place. When we finally got up the mountain we had an amazing greeting by many, if not all, of the people in the village! As we got close to the house we had passed an elementary school. By the time we got to Maka’s house all the kids had run down! It was hilarious! We got some great pictures of it! Our time there mainly consisted of a welcome from the village chief and Maka’s family, members of the family dancing for us, and me having to address the crowd a few times! We had lunch, traditional food which was not too bad! Believe me…I am not always good at trying new food so it was a good time for me! I then gave my child and her family some gifts and they gave me many in return (also in the pictures). I really enjoyed my time in Lesotho with this family! I never dreamed I would have had this chance when I first started supporting her back in 2005. I was a little bummed that my child and her mom were so overwhelmed by the experience though. They were very shy!! I wanted to scoop Maka right up, but I knew that wasn’t going to happen.:) But, we did get some great pictures. Her face absolutely lit up when she got the coloring book and crayons! If you want more information on sponsoring a child through World Vision click here. Also, click here for pictures from my trip.

So, November 17th I will be back on American soil. Wow! I look forward to reconnecting and sharing in more detail what God has planned for my life.

Much Love,

manda

Life Compass and Slumber Party

2008-09-21T09:28:00.000-07:00

(my awesome apprentice crew that i have had an amazing time with this year!
left to right...kellie, jody, andrew, laura, roger, me, mariah, and chris)

Eight weeks from today, Monday, I will be home! That’s really hard to take in sometimes. I’m not quite sure what to do with that yet. There is a lot to do here still, a lot to do to prepare to come home, and a lot to do once I get home. But, I have already promised myself that I will definitely take the time to enjoy family and friends over the holiday season and just get re-acclimated to American culture…try to at least. I know that will be a pretty difficult part of this whole process.

Throughout the past 3 weeks the apprentices here worked on our Life Compass’, which I mentioned briefly in my last update. The Life Compass is something CRM/NieuCommunities created to help people gain direction in their lives. We used all the personality tests that we took at the beginning of the year and a timeline of our lives (along with the actual Life Compass workbook) to bring all the pieces of this year together. We took an in depth look at our lives to see where God has taken us in the past, and what our gifts, talents, interests/longings, and values are. Sometimes I think we might know what those things are…but how often to you actually take the time to really think of those things? It’s a big part of who we are and most of us probably couldn’t truly answer the questions: What are your values? What do you like to do? What are your passions? What do you think you are good at? What has God gifted you with/in? (Take some time to think about those!) It was a hard but great process. All of this culminated in a Vision Statement for our lives. This was a bit difficult for me because I had never done that before. When I was out of work last year the questions above as well as “where do you see yourself in the future” kept coming up when I was job searching. It was really frustrating! Mainly because I didn’t feel like I knew how to get to the bottom of those questions. So, I was really glad to finally be able to answer some of those tough life questions to come up with a Vision Statement. You are now probably wondering, “What is your Vision Statement?” (or not!) Well, I still need a bit of time to work on it. We wrote our rough drafts and got feedback from the community, so I need to go back and revise now. I will be passing it along when I get it done as I am excited to share my future plans with you (as well as who I feel God has made me to be).

Speaking of future plans…I have definitely gotten the question, “What’s next for you?” many times! I am really glad to get it in one respect…people care for me and want to know what God is planning next. So, thanks for asking!! But, it’s also hard to answer that question. One reason is that my plans aren’t completely settled…which is ok. Another is that I am not quite ready to share what’s on my mind yet. That will come out more though when I share my final vision statement with you. For now, I am planning to be back in Atlanta. There are some ideas beyond that, but again, that will come later. Thanks again for your interest!

My ministry to the girls at the Lerato House has been great lately!!! I have been having so much fun with them! They just make me so happy, and I love being around them!!! I get so sad when I think about leaving them soon. I try not to think about it too much. They are just such amazing girls!! I feel so blessed and privileged to be apart of their lives! This past weekend, Laura and I had all the girls over to our house for a slumber party. It was so much fun!! The girls hardly ever do anything over the weekends so they were excited to get out of the house for a change. We picked them up on Saturday evening and had them at the house until about 1:30 on Sunday. (When I asked them what they did on Saturday they said, “we waited for you to come”. Priceless!!!) We made dinner for them on Saturday night and watched movies (Stomp the Yard and The Beauty Shop). Laura made cookies and popcorn for them as well…she is definitely gonna be the favorite mom on the block when she has kids!! Sunday we made breakfast and then the girls either played in the pool or watched another movie. They loved the pool!!! They never get to do that so even though the water was still pretty cold they had a blast! It was fun for Laura and me to watch them have so much fun this weekend! It will definitely be one of the highlights of this whole year.

(fun cooking breakfast)

Another part of this past Sunday was a baptism. The oldest girl in the house, Buyi, came to me a couple of weeks ago and told me she wanted to be baptized. I was so excited for her! She said she had decided that she wanted to start following God more seriously now and get back His path. She is such a great girl!!! She is a great leader in that house…a quiet leader. She is determined to do well and get her life back on track, both spiritually and in getting back to school to further her education. Buyi is 21 years old so she is already a bit behind. She wants to get to college so that she can move on and get a good job. Sometimes I am amazed at her attitude. There are times when she is really down, but mostly, she is positive and works really hard. I know it has to be extremely difficult to be living in a shelter at 21 and not even started on college. I am so proud of her though! Please pray for Buyi as she starts on a more determined path with God. I hope for such great things for her!

me (yes...one of the girls braided my hair), buyi, and laura

I guess that’s all for now. My blog posts and updates might be coming more rapidly…as busy as I am there will be a lot to tell in the coming months. So…be on the lookout! Thank you so much again for all that you have been for me this year! You all mean so much to me. I can’t explain how great it is to know how much I am supported and to be able to share this journey with you! Thank you!

LOVE LOVE

manda

Final Calendar

2008-08-29T02:48:00.000-07:00

So, last week we got our final calendar for the year. The final calendar!!! I couldn’t believe it! For about 15 minutes we talked about “the rest of the year”. It was kinda hard to take all that in and think about the days when this would all be over. I can’t believe that time is coming up! We now have 11 full weeks left…that’s all! Time is really starting to wind down. However, we still have a very full schedule. Yet to come is a girls’ trip to the Drakensberg mountains (where the apprentices went in the beginning of the year…should be great!), hopefully a visit to my World Vision sponsor child…still working out the details to that, ministry as usual (time with the girls and time with Sister Melanie), an environmental weekend here at Pangani, Life Compass (where we look at where we have been and try to see where we might be going), and our final celebrations. It should be a great, full time…although I know it will be tough! I am really excited to get home and see my family and friends, but it’s going to be so hard to leave this place and these people! I am sure that will leave me with some crazy emotions in the coming weeks. But, God is good and I know He will be directing and guiding me through it all.

We are in the Imagining posture right now (and will go into the Entrusting posture to end the year). I am looking forward to revisiting all that I have done here and beginning to imagine what God could have in store for me down the road (this is where the Life Compass comes in). I am praying that I have an open mind, heart, and ears to all that God could be speaking to me during this time. I don’t want to be closed off to His ideas out of fear or by my own ideas getting in the way. It’s always an adventure with God…I want to be ready and willing!

Recent adventures:

Feast of the Clowns…a week long conference/celebration/festival that focuses on diversity in the city and taking back the city for the children. TLF (Tshwane Leadership Foundation…who runs Lerato House) puts this on annually and I believe this is the 8^th year. Throughout the week there are seminars, productions, classes, and a march to conclude the week. It’s a great time! Some of us went to see the Soweto Gospel Choir during the week and they were awesome!!! It was an amazing opportunity! We actually only got to see half of them so I am interested to see the whole group! The march at the end of the week was great as well! It was full of youth from all over the city singing and dancing through the street. I took some fun pictures of my girls from the Lerato House as well as all the other youth marching through the streets. See my pictures online here.

We also had our second (and last) week off during the week of August 17^th- 24^th. It was a great time to relax and enjoy this wonderful country by heading to Cape Town. This is an amazing city! The views are quite picturesque with the mountains and beaches in one place. We had perfect weather, which is rare for August. So, it was an extra amazing time. Click here for pictures from Cape Town. We got to see a number of great things while visiting…Table Mountain, the beautiful beaches (though not so much beach season yet), Hermanus (small coastal town with whale watching), Cape Point/Cape of Good Hope, South African Penguins, an Ostrich Farm, Wine Country (on our rainy last day), and a GREAT local market. I loved all of it!

The Road Trip of eight also finished up their time in the last month. They were here for a total of 2 weeks. It was cool to have visitors here who were checking out what we do and thinking about doing this same thing next year. I loved being able to share all that God has been doing in my life throughout this year and being able to encourage others. It was also fun to feel like a local in South Africa and even get to take others to Pilanesberg for a game drive. We saw tons of animals and even came very close to being stampeded by a huge elephant! That was both super scary and super cool all at the same time. Sadly, the time with the Road Trip ended on the same day that Passion took place. So, I ended up having to make a choice and I opted out of going to Passion. I would have really liked to have seen Passion international, but I was really exhausted from the Road Trip and wanted to see them off and hear their closing sentiments from the past 2 weeks. Next time.

Ministry with the girls continues to go well. Some of the girls are becoming more and more comfortable with us and I enjoy them all more and more. However, I have to say that it is difficult only seeing them twice a week. Sometimes it feels a bit disjointed and I often feel like I should be doing more. It makes me wonder how things could be if this were my full time job. It makes me wonder about the future and if this kind of thing will be apart of my life when I return to Atlanta. We’ll see! I am also enjoying meeting up with Sister Melanie once a week on Tuesdays. It has been inspiring to me to see her dedication and passion in fighting Human Trafficking. She is a great woman and I feel blessed to know her! I feel she will be someone I will be in contact with for a long time. I have mainly been doing office work with her still, which is fine by me. It has been good to help her out in this way and do some things for her that would normally take her much longer to do. I guess living in the bush for 23 years doesn’t help your computer skills much.

Oh yeah…speaking of Sister Melanie…the march for human trafficking! So, Mariah and I tried to be apart of the March at the beginning of the month. We got a flyer that said the event (speakers back at City Hall also) was going to be from 10-1. Well, we got there at about 9:45 and went on a wild goose chase trying to find the march. Apparently there were a few things going on for Women’s Day so people were a bit confused when we asked them about the march. We finally just went back to City Hall to find that the program was almost over. We had completely missed the march…which ended up starting at about 9! Typical Africa for you! But, Mariah and I had a great time! We had our own signs and marched through the streets on our own. We met some fun people along the way and enjoyed every second of it. So, my first march ever…a semi-success!

I guess that’s about all I have been up to recently. As busy as it’s been I have managed to have some great times with God and am still trying to read through the Old Testament. I am currently on Esther and hope to be through Job by the middle of next week. My friend who I am reading with is on Isaiah so I am going to just skip Psalms and Proverbs to try and catch up with him. It has really been a highlight for me. I love reading through big chunks of the Bible at a time and highly recommend it. It brings a whole new light to it.

Prayer Request: Please pray for my health. I got sick the first couple days of Cape Town and was in bed all day one day (actually many of our community members caught the flu that week). But, I have not been able to get fully better since then. I have had a nagging cough and now I am starting to go downhill again with a sore throat, congestion, and headache. It’s kind of a bummer. So, please pray that I would recover from this illness. Actually, while you are at it, pray for Jody as well. He has been sick longer than I have and can’t seem to shake it either. Thanks so much!!!!

I hope you are all well! Send any prayer requests my way as well!

Much Love to all!

manda

Recent Happenings...

2008-07-29T03:21:00.000-07:00

Each Friday at Pangani we have our Worship/Prayer night…I guess you could call it our community church service. Each week people take the responsibility of cooking the meal, watching/teaching the kids, or planning the night for the adults. Sometimes we have guests joining us (people from our local community or those we are involved with in ministry) or it’s just us. It does take some work to pull it off each week and we are usually very tired by Friday, but it’s always worth it. A couple of weeks ago I was in charge of planning the night. We had been focusing a lot on justice in the last weeks so I decided to focus on human trafficking. We watched the Not for Sale documentary, prayed, made orange wristbands to wear all week to remember to pray, and checked out the website Trade As One (which sells products made by former slaves). It was a great night (as good as focusing on something like that can be) and people were glad to be made more fully aware of this issue plaguing our world.

We also attended a conference recently put on by the Institute for Urban Ministries. The focus was on bringing HOPE back to the cities. We heard stories of people from all over Africa and a couple from the US who are working to bring hope into their cities. I was surprised at how international the conference was: people from Burundi, Kenya, the DRC, Mozambique, Holland, the US, Canada, Germany, and all over the South Africa. It was great! It really encouraged and inspired me to hear the stories of hope and that there are people all over the world fighting the same fight.

Good news…I did end up meeting with another lady who works against human trafficking here!! She is actually a sister (Sister Melanie) who used to work here for 23 years teaching in the Kwa-Zulu Natal province. (She is originally from Ireland). She is amazing! She has been working to fight trafficking for the past 6 months and is doing a great job so far! I am mainly helping her with office work that she is behind on and might help her with some speaking engagements in the near future! Her main goal is prevention versus finding a cure…though that is an important and needed thing here as well. The fight against human trafficking itself has a ways to go in SA, but I am glad to see people fighting. The other cool part is that I have been able to get Sister Melanie and Wilna (the first lady I met with) together for a meeting…which will likely take place August 5^th. I am excited that I was able to play the role of getting them together and that God would use me in that way. Also, on August 8^th there is a Women’s Day walk/march downtown to stand up for women’s rights and to stand against human trafficking and legalizing prostitution. Sister Melanie will be giving a speech at the end of the march, which will be really great! I am looking forward to being in my first march and standing up for what I am working for!

The next couple of weeks will be a bit crazy here. We have a group of 8 visitors here on a Road Trip, which is a 2 week journey people take to get to know NieuCommunities and to see if doing the 10 month apprenticeship is for them. They are mostly from the United States but we do have one girl who lives in Pretoria (though she is originally from Zimbabwe) joining us. We have been working hard to get things ready and we are excited to have the road trippers with us. At the end of the 2 weeks I will be volunteering at the Passion conference. I am excited about this because I have volunteered at the last two 4-day events they had (2006 in Nashville and 2007 in Atlanta) and have had great experiences. In 2008 Louie Giglio (the founder of Passion, an organization aimed at igniting the college generation for Christ) decided to take Passion international! When I originally heard that I thought it would be great to be able to volunteer at one but thought it very unlikely. So, I was excited to see that one would be taking place in Johannesburg when I was going to be here! On August 9^th, 3 other friends and I will be headed to Jo’burg to experience Passion International!

Finally, last week during our weekly check-in time, our group participated in a lectio divina. This is something we do quite frequently but it always brings up something new each time. The idea behind a lectio is to read a passage of scripture slowly and meditatively in order to really think on it. Someone reads it through about 3 times and you focus on a word or phrase that sticks out to you. It’s a great way of reading scripture, both individually and corporately. It’s nice to “take it slow” and just take in the words being spoken. Last week I had a cool experience with it. God rarely, if ever, speaks to me with images and this time He did! As our friend here was reading the last 2 verses of Psalm 139 Search me, O God, and know my heart; test me and know my anxious thoughts. See if there is any offensive way in me, and lead me in the way everlasting, the following came into my mind. (“in the way everlasting” stuck out the most.) I got an image of two paths. One was dark and windy and had trees with thorns all over it stretching out across the path. Whichever way you tried to walk you would be stabbed with a thorn. There was no way to escape it. Although it looked horrible, it was still in someway tempting, as the dark path can be sometimes. The other path was sunny and had green pastures on either side stretching for miles. However, there were hills and valleys throughout that would be tough to get through. The road was good, but difficult, and yet there was still that temptation to go the other route. As I took in the image I felt myself standing at the crossroads between those two paths…always having to make the decision of which one to take. The image reminded me that although the road with God can be tough at times, it’s still the better path. The path of darkness may at times seem good and be what you think you want…but it’s not everlasting. There will always be things “getting in the way” to your happiness. There will never be true fulfillment. The way everlasting is God’s way. He will always be the only one who can bring you that true fulfillment you are looking for.I continue to learn that lesson over and over through many failures but it’s a great one to keep learning. “Show me your ways, O LORD, teach me your paths; guide me in your truth and teach me, for you are God my Savior, and my hope is in you all day long.” (Psalm 25:4-5)

I hope you are all well! I continue to think and pray for you all. I have come to truly love having a support team back home. (financially, prayerfully, and emotionally). It gives me such peace to know that I have people praying for me and caring about me and my whereabouts. It’s an amazing gift from God and I wouldn’t want to be doing this on my own. So, thank you again for being my support!

Much Love,

manda

Fellowship

2008-06-30T12:13:00.000-07:00

Wow! It’s been a really long time since I’ve updated. Sorry! That probably means this will be a long post. I will try my best to be as concise as possible. I will start with the overall updates first.

Things have been going really well at the Lerato House (the shelter for girls). There have been three new girls added within the past 2 weeks so they number is up to 14. Laura and I go every Monday and Thursday now. Monday is devoted to devotionals/Bible study as well as hanging out, and Thursdays are just for hanging out. It’s been great getting to know the girls more and more and to see them become more comfortable with us. We have been trying to get some one-on-one time with different girls because we feel like that is when growth will happen. It’s hard to really connect with them when everyone is around…especially since they end up speaking in their languages about 90% of the time. We have also gotten to know more about their histories and why some of them have come to live there. Some of it is really tough stuff! I don’t know how some of them keep going! It’s amazing to me and a huge testament of their strength…and God’s strength working through them. I know He is with them and has brought each of them to the Lerato House for a reason. I truly feel so blessed and privileged to get to spend time with them each week. Prayer request: that the barriers of language, culture, differences in backgrounds (specifically their difficult backgrounds) wouldn’t actually be barriers.

Monday, June 16 the apprentices were in charge of hosting a Braai (bbq) in a nearby park. This was a nation-wide holiday (Youth Day) so most people had off from work and the kids were off from school. The event was to go along with our Inviting Posture. All of us, including staff, invited guests to come hang out with us, play soccer, and enjoy yummy food! It was a huge success and we had lots of fun…I think about 70 people were there! Laura and I went to pick up our girls to come hang out. I think they really enjoyed getting away from the house for the day…as they usually just laze around the house when they have days off. Below was going to be a picture from the day of me, Laura and the girls…but the internet was acting up. Sorry! (See the other link that I sent out.)

I am starting to feel like the door to get involved in the activist side of the anti-trafficking movement may be closing. I have yet to meet again with the lady at the Tshwane Leadership Foundation. I also had a meeting set up with someone else this past Tuesday and it fell through. We have set another meeting for next Tuesday so we’ll see. If it doesn’t pan out from there then I am going to stop pursuing it at this time. I don’t think it’s a closed door forever…just for this time. There are so many things we are responsible for here each day, and I don’t want to spread myself too thin. Volunteering at the Lerato House, spending time with my community, working through any assignments I have from “class”, and spending time with God keeps me pretty busy.

This past weekend we hosted a Taste and See for our NieuCommunities site. There are many people we are connected with here, and they are always asking, “So, what do you do?” There are also those that are asking, “How can we do ‘church’ differently?” It was a really great weekend. We gave people a small glimpse into what we do here, and we had some great conversations about how we can be the church in South Africa and what that should look like. There is a lot of work yet to be done, but I think things are moving in the right direction. There are a lot of people here excited about getting back to the basics of Christianity and who are excited about seeing a change.

I guess what’s left is the personal part to the update. It’s been an interesting time for me the past month or so. I went through a time of doubting and questioning lately…of my faith, my place here, my purpose. It was really tough. I am here to serve God, be with God, learn more about God (while living in community and serving others), but I didn’t feel like doing any of that. I wasn’t sure where it came from either. I was left to search and question and try to get back to where I had been before…in love with God and running full force after Him. I wasn’t sure how to get there though. I just kind of sat in the feelings for a while. I truly didn’t know which direction to walk and I wasn’t sure I wanted to move. It was interesting though because in all my doubting and questioning I would still go to God. I knew He was there…I knew He always would be. I could never even begin to deny Him. I just really wanted to feel His presence…I wanted to feel excited about my faith again.

When the doubts first started happening, I somehow knew it was just going to be for a time. I knew when I got to the other side of it that I would be chasing after God in a new way again, and I looked forward to that! I had been in valleys before, but they still stink. They are still never where you want to be…even if you know you will learn great things from them in the end. Two weekends ago we went on a retreat. It was a great time for me. I was finally ready (and knew it would probably happen that weekend) to get back on track with God; to start seeking Him again.

On the retreat, I read a book about the Trinity called “The Great Dance”. It was actually life changing for me. It opened my eyes to how the Father, Son, and Holy Spirit interact and how we have been invited into that their circle…into their dance. The Trinity is all about fellowship, and by Jesus coming to Earth and becoming fully human, we were allowed to be apart of that. It’s really beautiful. I realized more and more (as I have been realizing here the past 5 months) that being a Christian is all about fellowship. Jesus came and spent time with people…ate with them…cried with them…laughed with them…stayed with them. It’s such a small gesture sometimes, but it can be the most important one as well. God wants me (my fellowship) and he also wants me to fellowship with those around me…family, friends, insiders, outsiders, widows, poor, orphans, everyone! God is a God of relationships. I had realized throughout my time of questioning that I was in mind game with God. I was trying to reason Him out in my head, try to figure Him out, and have all my questions answered. I knew I was headed down the wrong path with that, but I didn’t know how to stop it. I am so glad to be back on the path of fellowship with God…which is right where He wants me. Cheesy…I know…but I am glad to be apart of The Great Dance.

I have been reading a ton in the Old Testament which has been helping a great deal as well. It has been good to get back to God…back to how it all began. At times the Old Testament can seem daunting and overwhelming to read. A friend of mine here and I are really challenging each other to be intentional with our Old Testament reading. It has been great! I encourage you to dive into it! There is some good stuff in there…and some comical stuff as well.

Well…there it is! The super long update. I hope it wasn’t too confusing! It has been hard to get all these thoughts down and try to make them clear. I have actually been working on this post for a few days. I will leave you with a quote by a well-liked author around our house…Pete Rollins. It says in a nutshell why I love this community I live in!

“In contrast to the view that evangelism is that which gives an answer for those who are asking, we must have faith to believe that those who seek will find for themselves. If this is true, then the job of the Church is not to provide an answer…but rather to help encourage the religious questions to arise…One of the roles of the Church is provide a sacred place for this exploration.” (Peter Rollins, “How (Not) to Speak of God, pg. 40-41)

Much LOVE!

manda

The Girls and Faith

2008-05-18T07:43:00.000-07:00

This is a post I know not where to begin. Things have been fairly slow lately…we had a week off from “studies” and just chilled around the house/town most of the time. It’s been a nice week of relaxing, but I am ready to get back on schedule. This coming week most of our scheduled time will be taken up with a conference of Sacred Romance. A local couple, who are very good friends of NieuCommunities, will be doing the conference. I am looking forward to it! I have never gotten to read the books by John Eldredge (besides Captivating which he co-authored with this wife), but I have heard good things about them and this conference! If you want to know more you can go to this link.

Last week, May 13^th-15^th, I had the opportunity to stay with the girls I will be working with throughout the rest of my time here. They live in a fairly nice home. It has 2 bigger bedrooms where the girls sleep (3 sets of bunk beds in each) and a smaller bedroom where the house mother sleeps (there are 3 moms that rotate throughout the weeks). They also have a homework room, a small living room, a kitchen, and one bathroom. Yes…one bathroom for 10 girls and a house mom! But, they seem to manage fine and that bathroom is probably a lot nicer than the ones they are accustomed to. All in all, a great place for the girls to live.

The time with the girls was great! We hung out with the staff during the day while they were at school (and even got to do one day of prison outreach). Then, we hung with the girls from about 3:00 on doing homework or just getting to know them more. We watched movies with them at night…which they really loved! I think it was a great treat for them. They cooked us dinner, which was so nice! Sometimes it’s hard to accept the great treatment we are given. They always want to give us the biggest portions, the best food, and the nicest things. One girl even gave up her bed for me! It makes me wonder why they do it. Is it just because we are a guest? Is it just in their nature/culture to be so hospitable? I am not totally sure the reasons, but it’s always really sweet to see…and makes me think of how I treat my guests!

As I stayed there with the girls I felt such joy! As we sat around watching movies I could see the little girls inside of them…the little girls that have been stolen away by poverty, abuse, neglect. I could see how much they enjoyed just being girls, with no worries, no hurt, no pain…just girls. So many hard times and struggles have already come their way, yet, I could see the light in them that Jesus sees. I could feel the joy in knowing that they are His. They are precious in His sight. I pray that they are or become precious in the sight of those around them…including themselves. Please pray for the 10 girls at the Lerato House…as well as the house moms. They are all in need…in one way or another! Thank you so much!

I did not get to meet with Wilna last Tuesday from the Tshwane Leadership Foundation…who works on trafficking. She got tied up with something else and had to cancel our meeting. I will admit that I was super frustrated by her cancellation. She is an extremely busy woman, but there are times here when people just cancel things and think nothing of it…or are really late to meetings. Everyone jokes about things being on Africa time, but it’s true! As a Westerner it can be one of the hardest things to get used to! It’s hard not to take things personally and to not feel unappreciated. But, I am still praying that the meeting comes about in the very near future. When I spoke with her on the phone she seemed excited to meet and get things going further with trafficking in South Africa…she didn’t seem to think there was near enough being done. So, please pray that the meeting would take place soon and that I would be patient in the mean time! God’s timing…right? :)

Personally, I have been in a rote place spiritually. I think in part it has been the week off. I tend to get in a bit of slump when I don’t have a steady schedule of sorts. I can get extremely unmotivated. But, lately, I seem to have been questioning the nearness of God. I don’t always know what to make of that. Sometimes I just wonder how He can know me…how He can care about me…how He can know what’s going on in my life…how He can be close to me while He feels so far. I know it’s not always about Him feeling close…about me hearing from Him…about always being on a spiritual high. Hebrews 11:1 tells us, “Now faith is being sure of what we hope for and certain of what we do not see.” I love that verse but had a hard time grasping it for the longest time. I actually read a sermon by John Piper once which helped clarify things for me…click here to read it. I just reread it myself and this in particular stood out this time… “In other words, faith grasps - lays hold of - God's preciousness so firmly that in the faith itself there is the substance of the goodness and the sweetness promised. Faith doesn't create what we hope for - that would be a mere mind game. Faith is a spiritual apprehending or perceiving or tasting or sensing of the beauty and sweetness and preciousness and goodness of what God promises - especially his own fellowship, and the enjoyment of his own presence.” I know that God is with me…ALWAYS! I trust in that and take hold of it. Sometimes it’s just difficult when I don’t feel him close and have to rely purely on Faith. I choose to Believe.

Thank you to all for your continued prayers! I think about my family and friends often and continue to feel the blessing of having you journey with me.

Much Love,

manda

God's Timing

2008-05-01T06:17:00.000-07:00

Waiting on God…Trusting He has a plan…believing that His timing is best. These are all things that I have been thinking about a lot lately….sometimes in frustration and sometimes in praise of God. Recently, I have been reflecting quite a bit on God’s timing throughout this past year of my life, especially with things since I have been in South Africa.

A year ago, I never thought I would quit teaching and move to South Africa. But, God placed on my heart the desire to pursue missions and to seek out what it means to live that life. So, I quit my job with nothing in the works and with enough money to live for a couple of months. God continued to provide for me with subbing jobs and the money kept stretching just long enough. I never would have heard about NieuCommunities/CRM had I not been invited to go on a missions retreat by friends. The amazing part is that I had previously prayed that God would bring me a job or at least a firm direction by the end of October…the retreat was the end of October! By that time I was finally ready to put my own agenda aside to fully pursue missions and do whatever God wanted. Little did I know at the time that I would be going to South Africa for a year! But, God made it clear to me that this was where I needed to be, and He made it all possible for me to make it here within 2 months of hearing about the trip. God’s timing…amazing!

Shortly after arriving in South Africa we started the listening posture. I started to become frustrated with the idea of finding where I wanted to serve. I didn’t know where to begin and I really wanted to hear from God. I so badly wanted to feel needed here, and I wanted to feel like I was being used by God to further His Kingdom. We spent a long time visiting ministries and waiting to hear from God. As soon as I walked into the Lerato House I knew it was where God wanted me. Instantly all my anxieties about finding the right ministry vanished. I felt so much peace and it was awesome to know that I had waited to hear from God and not just picked a ministry that seemed ok. By finding the Lerato House, I was also reminded of my passion to see the end of Human Trafficking. I had heard about it in the Fall of 2006 at my church and knew I wanted to be apart of the movement. But, I didn’t know how that would ever come about. Since being here though, it is all starting to come together! Working at the Lerato House gives me a chance to walk through life with girls who are affected by trafficking, prostitution, drugs, or other abusive situations. I am also (hopefully!!!) going to talk with and learn from a woman here who is involved with the trafficking movement full time. (She works for the ministry that the Lerato House is based out of). This will give me the chance to learn more about the advocacy side of trafficking as well! Our Lord is an amazing weaver of lives!!! God’s timing…amazing!!

We are about to be in our last week of the submerging posture…I can’t believe it! Time is really flying by. You may remember that I spent a few days out in the township living with a family there and submerging into the culture. Well, for this next week, we had the assignment of finding our own place to submerge and making the connections ourselves. At first, I was very frustrated because, at the time, I hadn’t been able to get started at the Lerato House, and thought my submerging experience would be pointless. But, yesterday, Laura (another apprentice who will be working at the Lerato House) and I had a meeting with the social worker and outreach coordinator at the Lerato House. We FINALLY set a schedule with them and will even get to stay with them next week from Tuesday-Thursday! So, we will get to see the daily lives of the girls and get to spend concentrated time with them. I think it will be a great time of building the foundations of our relationships with them. I am very excited for it! God’s timing…amazing!!!

Laura and I will be leading devotions on Monday evenings…doing homework and hanging on Tuesday evenings…doing outreach on Wednesday morning/afternoons…and street outreach on Wednesday nights. We went on the first outreach with them last night. There is a group of about 3-4 women (and one guy who drives them…for the past 7 years!!!) who go out and meet with women who are caught up in the vicious cycle of prostitution. They bring them coffee/tea/cold drinks and just talk with them for a bit. They tell them about the Lerato House at some point, but they don’t press the matter. They just go out and build relationships with them, don’t judge them, and trust that God will move in His amazing way. It takes a long time to build up the relationships enough for the girls to open up to them, but they go out every Wednesday and consistently meet with the women. It is an amazing ministry and I feel so blessed to be apart of it and to have the chance to minister to these women. It’s also really cool to know that the young women/girls we will be working with at the Lerato house have been saved from that lifestyle (most of them anyway…not all) and that the street outreach really works…even if I don’t see the fruits of it in all the times I go. God’s timing…amazing!!!!

So, in all these examples of God’s amazing timing, how can I still doubt? How can I still wonder if things will work out? How can I still worry about “tomorrow”? How come I can’t just trust that God will make all things workout in His perfect timing, in His perfect way, and in the way that will be best for me? I don’t know! But what I do know is that God never leaves me throughout my times of doubt, frustration, and worry. He is still right here working things out and moving in my life. He is still guiding me and loving me and watching over me. I am thankful for a faithful Father, a perfect Planner, and merciful, gracious God. I challenge you to look back on a certain amount of time in your life. Do you see times in which God has moved or worked things out in His perfect timing? You might be surprised to find all the areas in which He has moved…even in times when you were frustrated, anxious, or even angry. Look for Him. Trust Him.

Prayer requests:

--that I would trust God’s timing

--that I would be able to truly connect with the girls at the Lerato House and any women I meet during the outreach times

--that my agenda would be put aside and I would allow God to direct my steps

--that we would have a cover of safety during our outreach times

Thanks in advance for the prayers! As always…pass any requests along to me as well!!

Much love,

manda :)

“You are at Home"

2008-04-14T13:46:00.000-07:00

Once again, there are many thoughts running through my mind as I write this. One thing I have realized about this place/experience is that it makes me think constantly!!! I don’t think there is a moment that goes by that I am not thinking about something, whether it’s about an experience, a conversation, a book, etc. It’s great though as I am learning so much…about God, myself, those in my community, how to live in a community itself, and what is means to be a Christian. I must admit…these are not always easy things!

However, I still live in the peace that this is 100% where God wants me right now. We are not promised easy times throughout our walk as a Christian, in fact, the Bible plainly tells us that we will have troubles… "I have told you these things, so that in me you may have peace. In this world you will have trouble. But take heart! I have overcome the world." (John 16:33) This is just one of the many times we are told that we will have pain, struggles, or troubles. But, we can take heart…Jesus has overcome the world! We can live with a sense of peace because we know that God is in control, “and we know that in all things God works for the good of those who love him, whohave been called according to his purpose” (Romans 8:28)…but that doesn’t always mean it will be easy. All that to say…even if things are tough here at times, I can find peace in knowing that I am following God and that He has my best interests at heart. I say all that, but things aren’t bad right now. They are really good!!! They are just challenging and tough mentally and spiritually at times…which is a good thing.

Random tangent but I wanted to express again how amazing this experience has really been so far. This is a place where I have been stretched, grown, challenged, and taught. This is a place where I have been loved. This is a place where I am allowed to think, learn, and ask questions. This is a place where I can serve others and be served. This is a place where we are poured into while pouring into our community. NieuCommunities is a hard thing to explain to others. You can’t fully understand this amazing experience until you experience it firsthand. I wanted to take a minute to thank you again for journeying with me. I am so very blessed by God to have such an amazing network of family and friends who support me the way you all do. God has created us for community and I feel the awesomeness of that to the fullest extent…both at home and here. Please know that you are in my thoughts and prayers!

Lastly…we had an amazing experience in the township this past week and at the same time have been reading a book called “Irresistible Revolution” by Shane Claiborne. This is a book that really makes you think. It brings up the issue of “living with the poor”. More than anything, this book makes you think and ask yourself very tough questions. I don’t think it speaks to everyone in the same way and we can all learn/hear very different things from it. We are learning that through our book discussions. What we have been asking ourselves is…Who are the poor? There are times when we assume people to be poor who really aren’t poor. They might look like they are by our higher standards, but they might live “richer” lives than we ever will. Maybe the “poor” are those around you in nice houses but have no friends and live very lonely, lost lives. So…who are the poor to you?

Living with my “family” in the township opened my eyes to what poor isn’t. I lived with Emily and Solomon and their 3 daughters, Pretty-16, Precious-8, and Nunghile-almost 4. By the way…they gave me a new African name, Matshidiso, which means welcome. It was great! Their youngest daughter always referred to me by that name which was awesome! (She didn’t speak English besides the occasional American songs she would sing along with!)

This family of 5 lives in a cement house (as compared to the tin shacks around them) that is about the size of a small 2 bedroom apartment in the US. They live on one income and worry about what they will do with their daughter’s education when she graduates from high school next year. (Know anyone like that where you are living??? Yep…me too!) Emily would love a job but can’t find one. Unemployment is a big issue for them. But, they are so happy! They are a great family and have wonderful values. They have a roof over their heads, clothes, food and most importantly, love! If you walked up to their house you would assume they are a poor, impoverished family. But, they aren’t. They have so much and are extremely giving. I was blown away by how “at home” I felt. It was so important to Emily that I feel that way. She kept telling me, “You are at home!” However, even though I know the Emily and Solomon aren’t “poor”, how do I deal with the extreme disparities between the poor, middle and upper classes that exists in this country…and all over? So tough!

See…this place really does keep me thinking…constantly!!! Are you thinking now? I hope so!

Submerging...Drakensberg..Homesickness

2008-04-04T00:59:00.000-07:00

A cool quote from Henri Nouwen to start out the update: "But from above, in the eyes of God, sorrow and joy are never separated. Where there is pain, there is also healing. Where this is mourning, there is dancing. Where there is poverty, there is the Kingdom." Just something to ponder on. :)

Another 2 weeks of greatness...well, almost. :) There were a few downer moments throughout these two weeks but overall it was a good time.

We started our Submerging Posture this week. We have been trying to submerge into culture the whole time we have been here, but these next 6 weeks will be much more intentional. Next week, April 8-10th, we will be living in the nearby township Soshanguve. All of us will be put with a family that lives near some of our friends there. It will be a very interesting time of truly diving into culture...but we have heard it's very hard for the families not to treat us as guests. We'll see how that goes! I will definitely update you on that time in my next update as I don't even know what to say about it just yet. :) Prayers would be welcomed though: that I have an open mind, heart, and spirit throughout my stay. In the following weeks we will do another submerging experience but we have yet to know all that will be entailed, except for that it will be something we personally arrange. The rest of this posture is filled with other submerging cultural experiences: soccer games, plays, concerts, hanging out with local friends or in local places, watching/reading the news, etc. It should be a great time of getting to know our surroundings on a much deeper level than we already do, which is important when your are hoping to impact a people group/community.

In the next weeks I am hoping to get a set schedule working at the Lerato House. Sometimes it is difficult to get things going with local ministries, so Laura and I are needing to have some persistence right now. But, we are being patient in trusting that God is in control. I am also looking into getting more involved with human-trafficking beyond what the Lerato House does. I am really excited about that. I am even planning a Friday night worship for my group that will have a "Not for Sale" theme. This is a group I heard about in the Fall of 2006 at my local church. They are heavily involved with the human-trafficking/abolitionist movement in the US and internationally. Click here to learn more about them. It's pretty awesome!

In the last week I have felt a bit homesick...which has been the downside. I really do miss my family a ton! We learned, early on, about some of the symptoms of homesickness, but I had yet to really experience them. This week they began to sink in. I didn't really feel like hanging out much with everyone and wanted to just hang out in my room...and watch DVDs on my laptop. :) I love the people I am with tremendously and feel extremely blessed that it has worked out so well with that. But, sometimes there's nothing like home. Though I know this time will pass I would greatly appreciate your prayers. "When you know yourself to be the beloved, and when you have friends around you with whom you live in community, you can do anything." Henri Nouwen I love this quote and am clinging to that right now. I definitely feel loved by God, my friends here, and my family and friends back home. Because of that...I have the strength to stick it out through the tough times.

Lastly, we took a trip to the Drakensberg March 27-30th. At the end of each posture we have a weekend of reflection and/or travel. It was great to get away and see a new part of South Africa. The Drakensberg are amazing!!! We hiked through a part called Giants Castle and I couldn't believe my eyes! I felt like we had found a secret place that no one else had been to. (It helped that we were the only ones out there at that time!) It looked straight out of The Lord of the Rings. We didn't want to leave! I will put a few pictures here but I am going to set up an online photo album soon so that I can share more of them. Truly amazing! It was also just a good time of hanging out with all the apprentices away from our normal life/routine.

Current reading:
Irresistible Revolution by Shane Claiborne
Life Together by Dietrich Bonhoeffer

Thanks so much for keeping up with me, praying for me, encouraging me, and being excited for me. I continue to be amazed at the number of people God has put into my life that can show me love and support. It's a great feeling!

Much love and prayers to all!

manda :)

Church (2nd part to update)

2008-03-21T14:22:00.000-07:00

What is Church? What does it mean to you personally? Since living in South Africa I have been thinking about that a lot. Our community has a big emphasis on being the church in all we do in everyday activities. It's really great! But, it has been hard to think of church outside the box and not just a Sunday thing. Today we had a Good Friday service (we will also have a day of reflection on Saturday and a service on Easter Sunday). Although I have enjoyed all of our Friday "church" services, this one really moved me. We had a lot of people joining us tonight: friends of staff, others who are involved with our community regularly, apprentices from 2005 who were here for the conference, and about 10 twentyish year olds from the township who are mentored by one of the staff members. It was a really moving service...probably one of the best ones I have attended for Good Friday recently. (I actually helped lead a worship song for the first time...it was great!) However, after service about 5 of us took our leftover food out to some of the people who live on the streets in our city's town center. That was really moving! They were so grateful! After that the township boys took over the piano. They were singing and dancing and just showing off. It was pretty great! After those two things I thought, "This is what church is really about: being a community while serving your community...both in giving food out, giving those in our "community" a safe, welcoming place to come to, and worship our God together." Just some thoughts I was having on Church. I hope it was interesting to read and think about. :)

manda

Conference and Listening

2008-03-20T15:45:00.000-07:00

Sorry it’s been awhile since I’ve updated. Well, not too long but I guess a lot has been going on here. So…sorry in advance that this will be a long one again!

On March 7^th, we started receiving our guests for the NieuCommunities conference, and they were all here by March 9^th. This began 3 days of service on the part of the apprentices. We were allowed to attend the conference when we were able to…as it was held in our house…but we had odd jobs to attend to as well, like babysitting and getting lunch prepared. I was on the transportation team so I got to put my driving skills to the test! I made countless runs to the airport between arrivals and departures. I also drove some of the conference attendees around town throughout the afternoons. I can’t believe that just 2 months ago I was picked up from the airport and everything was so foreign! Now I can get there and back no problem! Except for the time I turned out of the gas station onto the wrong side of the road!!! It took me a couple of seconds to realize why it felt so wrong to be in that lane…yet so right at the same time! I guess the car turning onto that road into my lane clued me in real fast! Luckily, I was able to get out of that one with no problems. I think that’s the only main flaw in my South African driving record so far!

Hosting the NieuCommunities conference was awesome! It was such a bonus…and blessing… for us apprentices that it happened to fall on our year and in South Africa. We got to see the bigger picture of CRM and NieuCommunities and get a good feel for the bigger family that we are apart of. We met some amazing people and got to hear some great stories. Some of the men and women working for CRM have been at this for awhile and not all of their stories are good ones. One of the main themes of the conference was that we are all called to be Apprentices of Jesus and that this comes with a cost. It really made me think. What will my cost be? Will I be ready to pay it? What will my future hold? Sometimes it makes me really excited to see what’s ahead in following God on this journey and other times I’m scared. But, I just keeping taking this one step at a time. Right now, I am in South Africa still enjoying every second of the journey I am currently on…well, almost every second. The president of CRM was at our conference and gave a wonderful talk about suffering and the cost of following the Cross. One thing he gave us to think about was, “If I had been spared ____________, I would have missed out on God’s best for my life.” That’s an interesting statement to think about. I had a really difficult last year of teaching, but if I had been spared it I wouldn’t be where I am right now. Has there been a tough time in your life that you can now see as something God has used for good?

Although the conference was good, I did have a few days of feeling really down. I wasn’t sure why though…which can be very frustrating. I am still learning to listen to God more and work through those times. My usual routine is to just push past those times and not think through them. It’s tough to get down to the root of things sometimes! I think one of the things making me sad at odd times is just feeling homesick from time to time and really missing my family and friends! Another thing that upset me was that Petunia, the woman I spoke of last time, lost a sister very suddenly last week. This was the 4^th sibling she has lost! There are now 3 of them left! Please pray for their family that they would find comfort in God through this time of confusion and pain.

Next week we will be concluding our Listening posture. It’s been a great 6 weeks, though pretty tough at times. In the beginning, I felt like I was truly emptied so that I could be built back up the way God wanted. I started out feeling like I had nothing to offer and I constantly focused on what I did wrong instead of seeing areas in which I was gifted or maybe just needed to work on. That was tough! Now, I am beginning to see more and more how God has gifted me…thanks to a bunch of personality tests we have taken (among other things)! Although they can be draining they are very insightful! One of the main verses I continue to hold onto is Psalm 139, especially the part about being wonderfully made. I now see that God has made me just as he wants me. I don’t need to be jealous of other’s gifts in my community. I have something unique to offer. The other great part is that I am definitely beginning to feel more bold and courageous through His strength. When we read a book on spiritual temperaments I scored high in the Activist category but I was only medium-low in the practicing of it. I think a part of that was not feeling worthy, that I didn’t have anything to offer, or that I wasn’t a leader in that way. Now I feel like God can use me and I have the courage to take some steps I may not have in the past.

Because of these feelings, I am much more excited to start my ministry work. I am going back to talk with the girls’ home in downtown Pretoria called the Lerato House…which I know I have spoken of before. I really feel like this is where God is calling me. I am also excited to get involved with the anti-trafficking movement, which the Lerato House is apart of. Human trafficking hurts my heart so much and I want to be apart of stopping it! So, as we exit the Listening posture we will enter the Submerging posture and really dive into our ministries. I look forward to giving you updates soon on how things go in that area!

Today began our celebration of Easter. For Holy Thursday we celebrated the Last Supper with the traditional Sedar meal. It was really interesting as I had never done that before. I recommend everyone celebrating this at least once! It’s really fun to remember where we all came from as a Christian community by looking at Jewish history/traditions. Tomorrow we will be having a Good Friday service at Pangani (my home) as well as a day of reflection on Saturday and an Easter service on Sunday morning…followed by a community breakfast. It should be a wonderful weekend! I pray that you all encounter Jesus in a special way throughout this Easter weekend.

Here in South Africa we are entering into Fall. From last Thursday night through yesterday (wed.) we had pouring down rain and really cold weather! It was crazy! Just \ days before we had hot, beautiful weather. Because of that rain though, Fall has set in. We had a gorgeous day today but it wasn’t too hot out, which was really nice! Winter might be a bit tough here since there is no central heating, but I think this Southerner will survive.

Ok, I think that’s all I have…for now. Thanks so much for reading and keeping up with me…if you are still reading. I hope all is well on your end of the world!

Much love and prayers!

manda

Sunday in South Africa

2008-03-02T06:54:00.000-08:00

Today was my second church experience in South Africa, the first one being on Ash Wednesday. I have been anxious to try some of the churches around here to find one that might fit. I have a feeling I might do some church hopping this year, but that's ok for now. Today's experience was quite different from the norm. But, it reminded me of the church service I went to the last time I was in South Africa, so that was neat.

We went to Beaula Tabernacle Church, which is in the township Soshanguve. The service was quite lively...but very hot!!! It was indoors but the sun just beats down on this church and there is not much reprieve from the heat! (But it didn't affect the people and their spirits one bit!) The people at this church, which is fairly new, are wonderful! They had all the guests stand up and introduce themselves and then they played this song and everyone went around to give you hugs. I absolutely loved how welcoming they were! It gives you a great image of what church should be like. You could tell that all cared for each other like family. They all helped take care of the children...you never knew who was the mom of who! :) They also announced that they were having wedding showers for different couples. What a community! I could tell that these people loved the Lord whole heartedly! You couldn't help but feel lifted up upon leaving that place of worship!

There were five of us who went with our friends Luc and Petunia (and two of their guests). Luc was on staff with NieuCommunities the past few years and has recently moved over to InnerChange, which is another organization of CRM. (click on InnerChange to learn more.) It's a ministry that is focused on the poor and lives in and among them. Luc and Petunia have been married a couple of years and have 2 daughters, Moskey and Bahati. Luc is actually a refugee from the Congo and Petunia is from South Africa. They are an amazing family with a huge heart for God and His people. I know God is going to do amazing things through them as they join the InnerChange "family". They are actually starting the ministry here in South Africa so the team is just them. I believe they are having some apprentices come soon, so hopefully the team will be growing larger! If you have a desire to support this group or Luc personally, let me know! Luc and Petunia currently live in a house on Pangani's property, but they will be moving to Soshanguve very soon. They will be missed very much!!! However, it's going to be awesome to have InnerChange and NieuCommunites both in South Africa! I think it will make a great team!

Personally, things continue to go well. There are times when I really miss my friends and family still, but I truly love the people I am getting the chance to do life with right now. I am still trying to seek God with my all. I am finally getting better at spending some time alone and with God. It's hard to get that time when there are so many people around! You really have to make an effort! I am still praying about my place of ministry but still feel called to the Lerato House for Girls. I will hopefully get to go back and visit next week. Please pray for me in that area and that I would heed to God's calling.

I hope all is well on the other side of the world! I would love any prayer requests from you as well!

Much love and prayers!

manda :)

Wellness prayers

2008-02-24T12:09:00.000-08:00

hey again...forgot to mention that i would love some prayers for health! i am fighting laryngitis right now (2nd time in almost 3 months time!). i felt a little sick on Thursday but nothing too bad. Then, by Friday night i could tell i was losing my voice, even though i didn't feel sick. not sure what that's all about. Maybe it's my body's way of telling me to get some sleep! I have been staying up way too late recently! but, i guess i better monitor that if it happens again in the near future.

I also have a horrible tooth ache. i ended up going to the dentist and i have an infection in the bone under one tooth. it's quite painful! i am on an antibiotic and pain medication. i can only eat on one side of my mouth because it hurts too badly to bite down on that side. the dentist mentioned that if nothing ended up helping it would have to be pulled, because i have already had a root canal/crown on that particular tooth so there's really nothing else to do. So...prayers against that! i would hate to have that happen!

that's all for now. thanks!!!!

much love!

manda

The Beauty of God's creation

2008-02-24T10:59:00.000-08:00

So, we went camping this weekend. We are about 1 hour and 30 minutes away from a Game ranch/park named Pilanesberg. They have a big camping ground next to the park where you can go on Game drives (safaris). We drove around on the way in, 2 times on Saturday, and on the way out. Unfortunately, we didn't see as many animals as we hoped for. They were quite sparse and if we saw some they were by themselves and not in herds. I saw some giraffe, warthogs, rhinos, zebras (from really far away) wildebeest, hippos (just the very tops) and a few others small things. The giraffe were the coolest by far because they were really close to the car.

The best part about the trip was the scenery! It was BEAUTIFUL!!! The mountain ranges were huge and seemed neverending. Seeing such amazing sites makes me love God even more. Pictures can't even being to capture the beauty of it all. But...i tried. He is an amazing Creator!

Even though I am not a huge fan of camping, it was a fun weekend. It was a good time of bonding, relaxing, and braaing (said with a long i). I think South Africans like to braai more than Americans like to BBQ. Truly!!!

Driving on the Left Side...Listening to God...Ministry

2008-02-21T12:27:00.000-08:00

Well, it’s been over a month since I arrived in South Africa! Time has truly flown by!! It was going so slowly at first, but now I can’t believe we have been here that long! I still really love being here! It’s crazy to not be at home at times and I miss my family and friends, but this place is definitely starting to feel like home. Probably because we are doing all our own grocery shopping/cooking now and getting around town a lot better. Can you believe I am actually used to driving on the left side of the road/right side of the car???? All the cars here are manual too so I had to get used to shifting with my left hand as well. For some reason, driving here is really fun! :) I am having to get used to crazy birds and animal sounds as well...especially at night. Those are constant reminder that I am not in Alpharetta! :) Being here in general continues to amaze me though, and I praise God that He has allowed me to be apart to take this journey with Him.

I am not sure I even know where to begin sharing. I guess I will update you on our schedule. We are about to finish our first full week since orientation ended. The mornings are dedicated to our “training”. We have discussions about different topics, we are reading a book by Henri Nouwen on Spiritual Directions (which is GREAT!), we have a time to “check-in” and pray together, and talk about spiritual disciplines. The afternoons/late mornings and all day Thursdays, are dedicated to ministry work. The year is broken up into 6 six week learning postures. We are in the listening posture right now. It’s a great time of learning to listen to God, others, and ourselves. I feel a strong need right now to listen to me/my heart…which sometimes feels selfish. But, sometimes I feel like I don’t know my own voice or understand my feelings so how can I hear God’s? I have been meditating a lot on Psalm 139 (it’s a GREAT one! see the link), especially the part that says “I praise you because I am fearfully and wonderfully made; your works are wonderful, I know that full well.” I know I am not alone in this, but there are definitely times when I tend to focus too much on what I do wrong instead of praising God for the gifts he has given me and focusing on the good. We are creations of God! I keep thinking that if I put myself down, then I am putting down a creation of God. Makes you really think when it’s put that way! :) I am also trying hard to hear God’s voice in all circumstances and really hear what He’s trying to tell me, especially in regards to what ministry I am to be apart of. We all so desire to hear God's voice but do we take the time to listen? It's hard!!!

These past weeks we have been visiting more ministries and hearing more about what they do. I went back to Home of Joy and got to play with the kids. It was a good time, but I am not sure that is where God is leading me. Today, we went back to the Tshwane Leadership Foundation. (Tshwane and Pretoria are the same thing…for some reason they have decided to change the name of the city! How confusing!!!) This is an organization that is working with churches and communities for urban transformation. It’s located downtown in Pretoria (about 20 minutes from us). I really feel God possibly calling me back to this place. They have 2 things I was interested in most. One is called The Potters House which is a shelter for women in crisis…for a variety of reasons like abuse, prostitution, and sex-trafficking. They do a lot of outreach to meet the women who are in need and still living on the streets. The other thing I was interested in was the Lerato House. This is a girls’ home for girls ages 13-18 who are in crisis for the same reasons as the women. They are amazing organizations and I am praying about whether God would have me go back and work with the girls or the women. I would love some prayers of guidance in this area. Where would God have me serve this year??? (we make our full commitments at the end of the listening posture.)

Another great part about today was our last stop on the “tour” of ministries with TLF. It was to Inkululeko Community Centre. It’s basically a day care centre for low-income families. The kids were adorable! When the 8 of us walked through the gates they came running and screaming and jumped into our arms!!! It was hilarious! They kept calling us all teacher and wanted to show us everything! We went inside after a bit of playing and watched them all in their dance classes. So cute!!! Andrew (another apprentice) and I were dancing along with them in one of the classes. That kinda got them all riled up though so I am not sure if the teachers liked it. :)

Interesting Books I am reading right now…or trying to read.
The Celtic Way of Evangelism by George G. Hunter III (great book about living in community...as we are doing...and a main foundational book for NieuCommunities
Spiritual Direction by Henri Nouwen
A long night’s Damage by Eugene de Kock (i might read this one)
Around Africa on My Bicycle by Riaan Manser. I actually just got this one at the store today because it looked really interesting!! This guy rides his bike around the entire continent of Africa! He is from Pretoria…where I am! :)

Well…I will definitely be trying to update more often as this turned out to be quite long. Sorry! Thanks for keeping up with me though! You are all in my prayers!

Much Love,

manda :)

Ash Wednesday

2008-02-06T08:32:00.000-08:00

Ash Wednesday has been really cool this year! This morning we had prayer and worship and we watched a Nooma video (these are videos by a paster named Rob Bell from Michigan...I think.) Anyway. It was a great way to start the Lenten season. We had been meditating on some verses in Ephesians...4:17-5:2 since Monday as well. We made a goal to be ready by today with some thoughts on how we were going to approach this season of Lent. We were challenged to think of things we want to give up, things we want to continue, things we want to stop doing, or even things we want to add to our lives. It was really neat to hear what people felt called to do during this time and to be able to walk through this season with my community. After we did all of this we placed ashes on each other's forheads and had communion. It was a totally different type of service than I grew up with in the Catholic church but very cool! I am really excited that we are celebrating this Lenten season intentionally as a community so we will be prepared for Easter.

Tonight, I am actually taking a few of the other apprentices to the local Catholic church for their Ash Wednesday service. It's been fun to have others so excited about it attending it. I think some wish they could have a quick "lesson" on what to do. :) Maybe I will have to brief them on the way in the car! :)

I guess that's really been all that's gone on this week. It's been a pretty laid back week so far...thanksfully!! In the coming weeks we will be getting into our normal routines...except that we won't have our ministry commitments in place yet. We will still be visiting lots of different organizations/people around town and praying about where God would have us serve this year. I am looking forward to more of a routine but i can already tell that our time here will be busy! :)

Chat with y'all soon!

Much Love and Prayers,

manda

Faith...Cricket...Apartheid

2008-02-03T12:02:00.000-08:00

Once again, not sure where to begin this blog post. We have had another jam packed week. Time seems to continue standing still here. I can't believe it's only been 2 weeks! In one sense, i feel like i know this place and these people so much, and in another i am wondering where in the world i am and who these people are! :) seriously though, the fact that i get along so well with the other apprentices and the staff has been what's really pulled me through this time of transition. We did some team building activiting at at game ranch not far from here which was fun. I have done some of the activities before but it was still fun with a new group. It's starting to feel more like a home here. I still really miss friends and family, but i am thankful that things have been going so well here.

I continue to be blown away by the amazing faith displayed by those who live in such desperate places. We met more folks from the township this week, Comfort and Paster Samson. They gave us a picture of hope in the township. They are on fire for the Lord and want to see change. They continue to fight for what the hope and believe in...Our Lord and Savior, Jesus! They are amazing. I can't even being to express what it was like to meet them. As is evident here. :) We also met Maria, who lives in Pretoria North. She runs an AIDS agency that provides counseling and does advocacy and awareness. She has been HIV positive for 18 years!!! She is beautiful!! She says one of the hardest things they are dealing with is that people won't accept their "status"...meaning not accepting the fact that they might be HIV positive or have AIDS. It's a really sad cycle that continues to go on and on. It's often times really difficult to hear all these stories but it also excites me to some degree. I am so excited that I get to be here and be apart of all that's happening to change this nation. I thank the Lord constantly for this opportunity.

We also had the chance to go to the Apartheid Museum. That is really tough place to walk through, but amazing. It tells the story of the long struggle this nation went through, and continues to go through. I am amazed that South Africa went through something kind of similiar to what the US went through during the Civil Rights Movement. So sad that we couldn't learn from each other. If you haven't read up the Aparthied you should. It's a rich piece of history...and very sad. I think we all remember when Nelson Mandela was freed from prison...but do you know why he was in there and why he was let out? Sorry...maybe the teacher in me is coming out. :) I expect a research paper from each of you in one week time. :)

We ended this week with our first international cricket match. Very cool! In that, I am not at all referring to the weather! It was extremely HOT!!! We had lawn seats, which are really fun, but the sun just beats down on you! There was no relief expect for the slight breezes that occasionally came in or if you left the stadium to walk around the outside for a bit. But, I think I a have most of the cricket rules down...and there are a lot! It was cool to see it first hand and really get to know the game. I enjoyed it a lot...despite the heat and the fact that one teams inning took 4 hours!!!!!!!! They only have 2 innings...one hitting and one defensive for each side. They have to get through alloted outs or balls thrown to them before their hitting inning is up. But, that takes a really long time! It rained when South Africa had just been up for a bit. So...some of hit the road. We were hot and tired! The coolest part was that it was their best player's, Shaun Pollock, last game.

Ok, I guess that's all for this edition. Love and prayers!

manda :)

Monkies in Trees

2008-01-29T11:45:00.000-08:00

So...nothing much to say other than we had a monkey in one of our trees tonight! So funny! The zoo is not far from here so that's the only explanation I could come up with. :) Just another reminder that I am not in Alpharetta, GA. :)

Made dinner with my teammate Mariah. We had fun trying to find the right ingredients at the store. By the way...if the buttermilk in South Africa is lumpy...it's ok! :) gladly came across a brownie mix. however, ice cream...not near as good as home...much to my dismay. :(

well...that's really all i had.

truckin' along here in Pretoria North,
manda :)

Right, Different, or Wrong?

2008-01-29T05:32:00.000-08:00

We have been continuing our study on culture this week. Yesterday we went to the Voortrekker musuem which told the history of the Afrikaans nation through marble sculptures around the inside walls. It was a neat way to tell a story...and beautiful! We also had a discussion on how people of different cultures either view things as right, different, or wrong in comparison to other cultures. Hmm...what things are a part of your culture that you would consider right or different, and what things are a part of other cultures that you would consider wrong or different? It's really intersting when you sit down and consider it. Cultural differences have been fun to discuss with our group since we have Americans, one Canadian, and one white South African. Very different world views. It's been really neat to learn about different cultures, evaluate our own, and see where God fits into the whole picture.

Today was another trip to the township of Soshanguve. This time we visited a place called Ikhaya Lenjabulo...translated means Home of Joy. We heard the story of Thobile, the woman who began this organization. She has an amazing faith and trust in God, mainly built up by the fact that she has seen God move so amazingly in her life and the lives of the children and families that she works with. In her words, "I have so much and He has always provided. Why not believe He will continue to provide." Maybe not exactly as she said it, but you get the picture. :) She has what she needs and knows she can't take anything with her. She finds fulfillment in the things that truly satisfy the soul. Do I live that way? Do you? She mentioned one day wanting to move back to Durban, where she grew up. She said she has given a lot to this township and now she hopes to be able to move back home and help people from her home town. Wow! That was amazing to me! She truly has a beautiful soul.

I think I felt a big connection with today's trip mainly because I could relate on a VERY SMALL scale to what Thobile was sharing. She used to be a teacher and told of her love for the kids and families she worked with. I instantly loved that about her! While I did not deal with the same struggles as Thobile, I could see her deep love of helping the children. At one point, she had 5 kids who lost their parents to AIDS and were ophaned. All within 2 months! This eventually led to the creation of Home of Joy. She found herself having to help so many families and children that she eventually had to quit teaching to run the "home" full time. It began in a garage and has, by the Grace of God, grown into a 2 story home with plenty of room for the kids. (the house was donated by a local church and the interior needs were donated by a few different organizations). They run a "daycare" there and house 8 kids full time. The rest are placed with their relatives....which she believes is important. The ages of the kids in the "daycare" were between 0 and 6...i think...and the ages of those who live there range from 4-13. The whole time we were upstairs there was this roar of kids voices coming from downstairs. I loved it! :)

We even got to share a meal with Thobile and her staff...who amazingly stay with the home even though they are paid very little! Prayers that that staff needs would be met through more financial support!!!! We had a meal of chicken and pap. Pap is kind of like grits..."undoctored" grits that is. :) It is best put with a gravy of some sort, which today was on the chicken and used for the pap. It was quite tasty. :) The catch is...you eat it with your hands! :) Eating with your hands is the normal way in the townships...and with some other cultures here. Interesting, but cool. :) Not right or wrong...just different. :)

Below are a few pictures from today. Also...one from Saturday when we went to the waterpark, Sun City. On the way out we saw a baboon on top of one of the buildings. Crazy!! :)

In His Love,

manda

the one on the far left is Thobile. (with the brown and white shirt.)

some of the staff and my gang eating.

Can you find the baboon on far right picture??? :)

The other is the "close-up". I couldn't get a great picture but it was pretty cool. :)

Has It Really Only Been One Week???

2008-01-27T12:29:00.000-08:00

Well...week one in South Africa has come to a close and week two has begun. We just enjoyed a really lazy Sunday, which was nice! We needed to recover from the hecticness that was last week (which, by the way, absolutely CRAWLED by here). I truly can't believe it has only been one week!

We have done a ton of stuff. We went to cultural museum one day to get a very brief history of South Africa. (we will be going to a couple different ones this week as well) Even though there is a ton to learn it was good to get the basic overview. We have started our “conversation” times as well. This is a chance for us to discuss our books and other topics. It’s basically our learning time. We visited a family in a local township that one of the staff members is really involved with. It reminded me quite a bit of the last time I was here. It was good to get out in the township because we have been in a mostly “city” setting thus far.

Most of our time has been spent learning about the culture here from different perspectives...which are quite a few. It's been great though because we will definitely be more prepared than if we had jumped right into the ministry side of things. To end this first week, one of our staff members, Daleen, made us Greek food and we watched “My Big Fat Greek Wedding”. It was a great way to enjoy the funny side of “integrating cultures”.

It’s been really great getting to know everyone here...staff, apprentices, and other members of the community. Everyone is so great! It's a diverse group but we have had a fun time. Well, I have. :)

Center is Kellie Laurson, my roommate, from Illinois ; Chris Seitz, to her right, from Florida ; Laura Waldrip, to his right, from California ; ME; Mariah Cocke, to Kellie’s left from Virginia ; Jody Thomas, to her left, from Canada ; and Roger Sanor on the end from Johannesburg .

Kellie and I get along splendidly! The other girls have been awesome too but it’s been a relief to be getting along so well with my actual roommate. Jody is hilarious! He has me laughing so hard all the time…especially during dinner which makes it hard to eat. Roger, poor thing, gets a million questions seeing as he’s local. Between Roger's English accent, Jody's Canadian accent, and the mix of accents we hear around town, we have all been joking about what ridiculous accents we are all going to end up having by the end of all this.

Oh yeah…it rained ALL WEEK last week!!! The first full sunny day was Saturday! But, that was perfect timing because we went to a water park that day. It was a great time of just chilling…and very much needed! It also gave us a chance to get to know people better and have discussions that are often brought on in a relaxing environment. The weather was beautiful, but much sun screen was needed as the sun can be quite brutal here...but i managed to not get burned and fared much better than most!

For those concerned...my luggage came on Monday so it wasn’t too bad. :)

I guess that might be all for now. The updates shouldn't be as long once I am on more of a routine with updating the blog.

I definitely miss you all A TON!! However, the week has gone much better than I anticipated! This must definitely be where God wants me for right now, which makes me feel even better. I am learning a lot and am looking forward to all that these 10 months will hold. Thanks for all your prayers! They are definitely felt as I settle in here so smoothly.

Much Love,

manda :)

one more thing...

2008-01-20T17:14:00.001-08:00

oh yeah...a quick update on my surroundings. the house we are staying in is really neat! it's a 100 year old house name Pangani, which means "to gather together". very appropriate! It has a spacious main house with many different types of rooms. the yard is beautiful and through the backyard are some steps up to guest houses. each one is about the size of a hotel room. there are two people per room but we have our own bathrooms which is great! it's a really nice place to stay!!! i will send pictures of it soon!

it is rainy season and it's been raining a ton! it has been weird to hear so much rain since we are still in a drought in Atlanta. i forgot how much i like that sound when i'm just lying in bed. :)

there are two dogs running around the place too...chippy and jesse. they aren't allowed in the house at all so it's funny to see them just sit right outside the doors and longingly look in. no worries though...there is plenty of covered area for them to be in when it's raining. :) they do sneak in the house occassionally but are quickly scooted out. :) kinda funny!

the staff couples have kids so there are lots of little ones running around here...which of course i love!

ok...i think that's all for now. don't forget to read the previous post that i just put on as well! :)

lots of love!
manda

First Full Day!

2008-01-20T16:56:00.000-08:00

Wow!!! I had my first full day in South Africa and it was wonderful! I spent a lot of time with all the other apprentices and staff as we had a cookout and just enjoyed each other's company. The next two weeks will be filled with orientation. We will be getting more familiar with Pretoria, each other, and getting a good idea of where we will be headed in the next 10 months. They have some awesome things planned for us and I am really looking forward to all of it! One cool thing will be a cricket match on Sunday...apparently it's an all day event!

I was really sad to leave my family and friends but it's getting much easier as the time goes on. I know I will experience moments of sadness but I continue to rest in God right now. This is going to be an amazing 10 months with Him!!!

I will keep it short for now but keep looking for more updates soon! I am going to do my best to keep this thing updated regularly. :)

In His Love,

manda :)

The Journey Begins

2007-12-10T19:05:00.001-08:00

Hi everyone!

Thank you for visiting my blog! I have never done this before so bear with me! :) I created this blog to keep you all updated on my travels to South Africa...from Jan 20-nov 14, 2008. Please check back regularly for updates of my journey!

In His Love,

manda :)